Tribute to Parveen Babi
Kabir Bedi
What can I say? Even though I was not in touch with her, her 'being no more' comes as a rude shock. We had shared a long relationship and lived together for years. Initially when I moved to Italy and England, she was with me, but she chose to return to Bollywood.
After a while, she went abroad herself. You know how it is, once you are out of a relationship, and married, it's hard to be in touch. I knew the details of her life only until she was with me. From what I hear, she had a number of problems. In fact the last time I saw her, was at the memorial of Protima.
She came to pay her respects. Even then, she wasn't looking very well. Anyone with whom you have shared a long part of your life, remains with you emotionally, and her passing way is a huge shock. Looking back, I think she was a very complex and volatile person but whatever her problems were, they're not worth discussing at this point. I worked with her in one film called Bullet.
I like to remember her as, a small town girl who came from Junagarh and made it in the bright lights of Bombay. She lived life on her own terms and that's never easy. So, I think whatever the circumstances of her death, she certainly left her mark.
Mahesh Bhatt
It hit me like a brick when I first heard the news. It's such a coincidence. I had been talking about her to the director of the National Police Academy, pouring my heart out to him about the time when Parveen had her mental breakdown. How strange that she should die soon after. It took me a while to recover my breath. The suddenness was difficult to take because the last I had heard, she was well in Bangalore. For me, Parveen died twice—the first time when she had her first mental breakdown and was with me. The personality I had known completely collapsed, like a house of cards.
All my attempts to put the pieces back together were in vain. Then we parted ways. I have chronicled this intense phase of my life inmy film, Arth, which became the start of my journey as a film-maker. The reality and the subsequent breakdown of a beautiful woman, right in front of my eyes, was so intense, that I had to exorcise it in some way, and film was the best mode. The turbulence and intensity of the time I spent with her is beautifully recorded in the film. I shall always relish the fact that my first claim to fame was as Parveen's boyfriend. She remains one of the beacons of my life. Her generosity, kindness, were unparalleled.
We lost touch, but we touched base again in the 1990s when the Gulf war was on. I had bumped into her at a book shop in in Mumbai. We exchanged looks but didn't greet each other. She had become a completely different personality. I would like to remember her as the girl who brought Bollywood to the cover of Time magazine and who died an anonymous death. She made the choice.
Zeenat Aman
She was such a beautiful and successful person in her time, it is sad that the end came like this when no one was there for her. She had become a bit of a recluse in the last decade and we had lost touch. Although we were pitted against each other as rivals by the media in our time, we shared a very amicable relationship. We worked in Ashanti and Mahaan and got along very well on the sets and in real life.
Sanjay Khan
When she first came to my office she managed to shock everybody with her hippie looks. We decided to cast her in Chandi Sona as she was very photogenic. Time magazine had her on its cover in March 1977. Gerald Clarke, the then assosciate editor of Time, was a personal friend and when dining with me one day told me that they were keen to have a Bollywood heroine on the cover. I recommended Parveen's name and when the magazine called her up, she was quite surprised. I lost touch with her soon after. The last time I met her was ten years ago. I feel very sorry that she died lonely and sick.
Yash Chopra
It is the end of a very big star. I have directed two films with her—Deewar and Kala Patthar. She was a very nice person and a thorough professional. She was also very graceful. She used to get along with everybody. Suddenly one day she was missing. I don't know what happened. It must be her depression and loneliness. Her death is very tragic as she has no one to call her own.
Hema Malini
She was such a joy to be around. On the sets of Do Aur Do Paanch , she would have us in splits with her pranks and perfect comic timing. She was a trendsetter and was well-turned out in manner and attire. Parveen will always be remembered as a style icon by her contemporaries.
Rakhee
I'm saddened at the death of a beautiful and wonderful person. I have made only two films with Parveen and remember her as a very co-operative and cheerful human being. After that, she did not meet anyone. It was her own wish to remain cut off from the world. May she rest in peace now.
Jeetendra
She was such a beautiful person. Parveen represented the bohemian Indian woman on celluloid, unafraid to smoke or drink on screen at a time when these were considered taboo.
Source: http://www.timesofindia.com